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Finding your date: a little luck, a lot of persistence

Online dating can feel like navigating a digital jungle

You send Likey’s, you exchange messages, you maybe even go on a date or two, and sometimes... nothing. It can be easy to feel discouraged, like you're searching for a single grain of rice in a rice paddy.

Finding a match on Mingle Guru is a blend of a little bit of luck and a whole lot of sticking with it!

Why luck matters

Think of it like this: luck plays a role in who you stumble across, who catches your eye, and who happens to be looking for someone just like you at the same time. But persistence is what turns that chance encounter into something meaningful.

Sometimes, it's just about being patient and in the right place at the right time. Someone amazing might have just joined Mingle Guru, or they might be finally ready for a relationship after a long break. That's a bit of luck!

However, relying solely on luck is like buying a lottery ticket and expecting to win the jackpot without ever checking the numbers. You need to put in the work!

Why persistence is your secret weapon

  • Explore a wider range of profiles: The more profiles you view and the more conversations you start, the greater your chances of finding someone compatible. It's simple math!
  • Learn and adapt: Each interaction, whether good or bad, is a learning experience. You'll learn what you like, what you don't like, and how to refine your profile and your approach.
  • Build resilience: Online dating can be a rollercoaster. You'll encounter ghosting, awkward chats, and everything in between. But by sticking with it, you'll develop the resilience to bounce back and keep searching.
  • Refining your profile: Update those photos! Change up your profile blurbs. Keep it fresh and accurate.

🎲 Finding love online is a journey with a sprinkle of luck

It requires patience, persistence, and a willingness to put yourself out there. So, remember that your spark might be just sending a simple Likey and message away!

At Mingle Guru we offer long-term subscriptions of up to 6 months which offers significantly better value and gives you the benefit of time and that sprinkling of luck.

Posted March 2025